Sahar Sukriti Shivam

S/he is interested in your pain not your drama. S/he is willing to share your dreams. How s/he responds to the world around. Remember how one does one thing, s/he would always do everything in the same way! 🤔 There is trust and honor more than love and Sexuality. You both share the same concept of fun and adventure. You accept the person as s/he is without the need to change anything but a willingness to grow together . You can accept the person as a package with all past baggage and blunders , present dilemmas and future dreams, the family , life plans, the nature of the person & you still find it worthy of your life. S/he honors life and process of life. His/ her reaction to hard times is acceptable by you. Sahar Gharachorlou LifeCoach

Would s/he be with me in thick and thin? Does s/he accept me for who I am in all my nasty, embarrassing, dark, dirty, hopeless moments? Would s/he be able to take it forward alone in times I am exhausted, shaken and beaten while waiting and supporting me to get back on my feet? Would s/he enjoy holding my hand and having a warm conversation or is s/he only concern about the scent of the bedsheets? Would this person stay with me if I get critically ill? Does s/he honor my roots no matter how they look and feel? Would I be able to do all above for him/ her? STOP asking and worrying about how much s/ he would love you. STOP wondering if you look attractive to him/ her! STOP wanting to be wanted. STOP wondering if s/he would die for you. STOP worrying about how good you are at intimacy. STOP worrying about how rich s/he is and how successful s/he would be! STOP making castles in clouds, it's on ground reality where things should matter. Saha...