7 questions to ask to know if your partner is the one you would be happily married to?

Sahar Gharachorlou LifeCoach

Would s/he be with me in thick and thin?
Does s/he accept me for who I am in all my nasty, embarrassing, dark, dirty, hopeless moments?
Would s/he be able to take it forward alone in times I am exhausted, shaken and beaten while waiting and supporting me to get back on my feet?
Would s/he enjoy holding my hand and having a warm conversation or is s/he only concern about the scent of the bedsheets?
Would this person stay with me if I get critically ill?
Does s/he honor my roots no matter how they look and feel?
Would I be able to do all above for him/ her?

STOP asking and worrying about how much s/ he would love you.
STOP wondering if you look attractive to him/ her!
STOP wanting to be wanted.
STOP wondering if s/he would die for you.
STOP worrying about how good you are at intimacy.
STOP worrying about how rich s/he is and how successful s/he would be!
STOP making castles in clouds, it's on ground reality where things should matter.


Sahar Gharachorlou LifeCoach

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