Sahar Sukriti Shivam

What I have observed in myself and overall people is that being humble and operating from a no ego space unlike anything else is not a muscle you can develop. ( Sounds like bad news for all seekers 😏). You can keep watching yourself and be cautious of not allowing the Ego to show up but just a trigger is enough for the Ego to let it's flames burn you and everything around you. Good news is I think there is a way out! And well, it seems to be working 😜🙃 You can not tame the Ego! And you should not. It only makes it more powerful. You can only keep knowing yourself better and better and as the wisdom of the self becomes your nature the Ego looses it's power over you! It is then that you become the Master and it starts serving you. Remember it's tools? "Fear and Desire". It is then that ego state becomes a healthy state of self awareness and ease, slowly allowing you to enter the Love space. Because it can no more frighten you neithe...

One thing is common with every single person I have met, from happy super successful to sad and non achievers! They all are searching for "Meaning" in life!! Some call it peace, some call it love, some call it higher consciousness/ purpose ! It doesn't matter what they call it but it's "meaning" that everyone is searching for. The difference is the happy, super successful ones know the secret!! 'That the only meaning to life is the one you give it'. 'The meaning you give to others' lives and how you include others in your meaning of life!' Any other method is bound to fail and make you miserable and empty yet again! Like constructing a sentence, every single word is important. Their placement in the sentence and how they are used is what makes a sentence and give it purpose. You too need to construct your life well, word by word, act by act so that it has and can convey the meaning you so desire!...

Its our innate nature to long for companionship. The desire is so strong that we often bypass our awareness and fall for people who do not match our frequency. The reason is we always have an expectation out of every relationship and of ourselves . In order to be able to fulfill our expectations we move into relationships with certain fixed ideals and projections. Sometimes our own intentions don't match what we truly are seeking! If you truly seek a fulfilling relationship, allow yourself to remain aware without any judgement, expectations or how you wish it to turn out to be. Let the relationship unfold and at each step see if it offers to match your energy. You would know!! If it's fun, light, expansive with no strings attached, if you are operating from honor, trust and respect! You would know if your intentions are clear! Just remember, 'You attract what you are' so keep aside all your ideas of how it should be, keep aside all that you read, hea...

Few days ago I was a witness to an argument between two siblings. At the end ( or better say that's how it ended), the elder one told the younger sibling, your life and what you went through is your fault. Being clairvoyant I could see the accused's Aura getting scattered and I could almost hear her heart crack. ( The same Crack every broken heart carries). It wasn't a pleasant situation to witness and I knew I would need to play the mediator in few minutes. At that point my own life flashed in front of my eyes! My own family, all that happened collectively and individually for everyone in my family while a parallel memory of almost all my therapy cases just breezed through my mind. This profound and yet extremely painful truth made its presence in my being even more visible. Like a harsh reminder! The fact that no matter how it feels and looks, at the end its our doing! It's always us Vs. us! It is always the Conscious mind Vs. the Subconsc...

What I miss the most about my father's presence is our meaningful conversations. One day when I was just 17 was he talked to me about marriage. He told me: 'Sahar remember, if you and your husband can't be best of friends, you would never experience the kind of love you expect.' This statement stayed with me, but unfortunately I didn't have a chance to experience and fully understand it. Today as I watch many relationships, I finally understand what my father meant then. Most of us Love the other the way we have been conditioned to know love. We do things as a sign of love for our children, spouse, parents and all others as we want to be loved. Very few really care to know the other person well enough to identify his needs, his pain and conditioning. And unless we know ourselves well and are our own very best friend we can never hold a similar space for our loved ones. We won't be able to love and care as the other wishes to be ...

Most people wish to be happy, successful, in love or all of the above! But they do not really know what does it mean to be happy, or how they wish to feel being in love? Many don't even know what exactly success would feel or look like! The most important questions you can ask yourself and ask frequently are : ' What do I really want?' 'How would it feel to be happy? What does happiness mean to me?' 'What do I understand/ know about being in Love? How do I wish to feel?' 'What does success mean to me?' Ask the right questions and help the Universe to bring you most accurate and liberating answers! Questions keep you in flow so keep asking! Sahar Gharachorlou LifeCoach

The Universal Law of Detachment states when you let go off your attachment to the results with a sharp focus on the intention of doing what you desire, you would put the Law of Attraction and the Law of Least resistance into effect all at the same time. The Universe responds to this powerful cocktail of Intention, desire, faith and trust at the speed of light and make sure you get what you desire! Sahar Gharachorlou LifeCoach

Be curious! Be a good listener Associate with people who are constantly growing Have a  biginner  mindset - Be open to learn from everyone Develop habits of growth Be a good student Be patient Sahar Gharachorlou LifeCoach

During the month of March till June 2019 the focus is on Self discovery. 2019 is not only about finding yourself but also about finding the best way to express your new discovery of yourself in most creative ways. You are guided to spend time with yourself and realign with your deepest inner self. You may indulge in yoga. It is an excellent tool to reconnect with Self and align your mind, body and Spirit. As you spend more time with yourself, you start to discover a new version of you. You maybe surprised by your new Avatar but that's OK. Allow yourself to be expressed completely. Find a creative way of fulfilling your dreams. At this time it's important, you indulge in creative activities. Most people think creativity is about making a masterpiece! Creativity is only about expressing yourself in form and it does not have to be in a particular way. It doesn't have to be for sale or to show others. It is meant to be only for you. So write, pain...

Each one of us is like a raw manuscript, it's upto us to turn into Best Sellers!! It needs editing, deleting, rewriting and a willingness to express our unique expression! Sahar Gharachorlou LifeCoach

People think positive thinking means you suppress your feelings of lower frequencies. They refuse to feel their feelings and it's intensity! Positive thinking can only work if it is based on awareness! Hence, you must pay attention to your feelings, acknowledge and accept them. Be grateful for your feelings as they are guiding you. Then ask, 'what is it that I am not seeing'? Sahar Gharachorlou LifeCoach

People think positive thinking is a day's job! They expect their life changes with few minutes of positive thinking. Positive thinking is a habit you need to cultivate. It's a muscle you develop with your determined conscious practice! You practice it till it becomes your attitude and your character. Sahar Gharachorlou LifeCoach

We hear everyone saying you must know who you are in order to tap into your full potency ! If knowing ourselves was so easy, everyone would have been living a full Life and be fulfilling his highest potential! The trick is you first need to let go off who you think you are! If you want to remain self consumed and hold to your so called values, convictions, conditioning and the Self image you are so proud off, you are far from knowing yourself. You would just move from one ego trap to another and would not even know you are sinking into your ego's quick sand at a higher speed. To know yourself first identify all the walls, all the lies, all the stuff which you are not and you would have reached home. Sahar Gharachorlou LifeCoach

If you wish to add value to your life, give / share that which is valuable to you. To me most valuable things are : ♦ Affection ♦ Time ♦ Care ♦ Love ♦ Joy ♦ Wisdom What do you value the most?? How do you plan to share what you value? Sahar Gharachorlou LifeCoach

The Masters remind us that we are in the most fertile time zone at this moment of time! Whatever you have in mind, those ideas, that project, the love of your life... Whatever it is, if you take steps towards actualizing them, your dreams would be fulfilled with least effort. Just make sure your intention is clear and for highest good of all, make sure you are focused and grounded in your ideas and that you have a concrete plan. This is a period of good news, all the past efforts and hard work you have put in, starts to pay off. It may not be in the manner you have perceived in your mind, but it surely is much better than you thought or could imagine. The key is let go off your idea of compensation and allow the Universe to shower you with abundance! Have a Magical week everyone! Sahar Gharachorlou Therapist & LifeCoach Source: Ascended Masters Message for the week 24th - 31st Jan 2019 !

Would s/he be with me in thick and thin? Does s/he accept me for who I am in all my nasty, embarrassing, dark, dirty, hopeless moments? Would s/he be able to take it forward alone in times I am exhausted, shaken and beaten while waiting and supporting me to get back on my feet? Would s/he enjoy holding my hand and having a warm conversation or is s/he only concern about the scent of the bedsheets? Would this person stay with me if I get critically ill? Does s/he honor my roots no matter how they look and feel? Would I be able to do all above for him/ her? STOP asking and worrying about how much s/ he would love you. STOP wondering if you look attractive to him/ her! STOP wanting to be wanted. STOP wondering if s/he would die for you. STOP worrying about how good you are at intimacy. STOP worrying about how rich s/he is and how successful s/he would be! STOP making castles in clouds, it's on ground reality where things should matter. Saha...

What makes us different from other beings is our power of choice and our awareness of the consciousness within us that makes those choices! Unfortunately very few exercise the latter! Most people make choices but very few make Aware choices! Hence, very few seem to be the great ones, the legends, the best! And then everyone follows them. You need to understand being like someone does not lead to the same outcome as they have had but making aware, conscious choices and knowing your calling is what makes the difference. Newton did not want to become like anyone when he discovered law of gravity. The Wright brothers were not thinking of becoming like anyone but they simply followed an impossible knowing / calling! Follow your own dream, you would have at least one that could change the world or at least make a difference! You like anyone else can make a difference only if you understand what's your dream and distinguish from what's imposed on you!! And the...

The Masters want you to know that We are moving through a phase with highetened awareness. What this means is; there are changes taking place within you and around you. Causing you to may have a feeling of swinging between the two poles of extreme hope and happiness at one moment and sadness and despair in the very next moment. The message is; " Take it Easy." There maybe a need for more sleep, more me time as you realize that there are thousands of thoughts clouding you at the same time. A series of repeated thoughts about same person or same subject and you wonder if you are going crazy. Well! You are not! 😉 It's just that you are becoming aware of your mind's pattern so that you can break it. Indulge in a bit of self pampering, this is the time to pay attention to your dreams, both in sleep state as well as a dream you have been having about an ideal life, note them down, reflect on them so that you open the energy pathways. Keep...

I asked a question few days ago; " what is success to you"? Some of you have written success is happiness, contentment, inner peace etc. If we think a bit deeper, these are the feelings you wish to have as an indication for you to know you are successful or in another words to be sure you have achieved what you were meant to. These feelings are your Soul / higher Self or Spirit communicating with you and telling you that you are in the right place. You would only know "all is well", if you are happy, if you feel at peace with yourself, if you feel free, if you feel contented! Let's understand success from a deeper perspective! Success essentially is continuous progression ( at all levels of health, Relationships, finances, spiritual path) with a prolonged feeling of happiness. When we progress, when we grow, when we move forward to more ease and joy we feel happy and contented. This feeling of happiness and joy is the mediu...

The whole of existence is permanently changing, for you to stay aligned with the gigantic shift, you need to take small steps in order to head in the same direction! You can't keep going straight if there is a curve ahead, you need to turn with the turn! If you don't, the Universe would push you, pull you, turn you upside down till you align with its direction! It won't let you fall though 😉 Sahar Gharachorlou LifeCoach