Love and Ego


Sahar Gharachorlou LifeCoach

What I have observed in myself and overall people is that being humble and operating from a no ego space unlike anything else is not a muscle you can develop. ( Sounds like bad news for all seekers 😏).

You can keep watching yourself and be cautious of not allowing the Ego to show up but just a trigger is enough for the Ego to let it's flames burn you and everything around you.

Good news is I think there is a way out! And well, it seems to be working 😜🙃

You can not tame the Ego! And you should not. It only makes it more powerful.

You can only keep knowing yourself better and better and as the wisdom of the self becomes your nature the Ego looses it's power over you! It is then that you become the Master and it starts serving you.

Remember it's tools? "Fear and Desire".

It is then that ego state becomes a healthy state of self awareness and ease, slowly allowing you to enter the Love space. Because it can no more frighten you neither it can tempt you and when none of fear and desire exists, Love emerges!

Love and ego somehow can't share the same bed! Sad but true...

Sahar Gharachorlou LifeCoach

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