Sahar Sukriti Shivam

What I have observed in myself and overall people is that being humble and operating from a no ego space unlike anything else is not a muscle you can develop. ( Sounds like bad news for all seekers 😏). You can keep watching yourself and be cautious of not allowing the Ego to show up but just a trigger is enough for the Ego to let it's flames burn you and everything around you. Good news is I think there is a way out! And well, it seems to be working 😜🙃 You can not tame the Ego! And you should not. It only makes it more powerful. You can only keep knowing yourself better and better and as the wisdom of the self becomes your nature the Ego looses it's power over you! It is then that you become the Master and it starts serving you. Remember it's tools? "Fear and Desire". It is then that ego state becomes a healthy state of self awareness and ease, slowly allowing you to enter the Love space. Because it can no more frighten you neithe...

✨What can I do today to be a willing and open receiver? ✨How can I add value to other's lives? ✨ What do I need to let go to open space for the new? ✨ What do I need to do to add more fun, more ease and more Joy to my life? ✨ What would it be for me to choose awareness at all times? ✨ What energy frequency should I be to be my authentic Self at all times? ✨ What energy I be to be an invitation for abundance? ✨ What do I need to be operating from a space of love and honor? Sahar Gharachorlou LifeCoach

Its our innate nature to long for companionship. The desire is so strong that we often bypass our awareness and fall for people who do not match our frequency. The reason is we always have an expectation out of every relationship and of ourselves . In order to be able to fulfill our expectations we move into relationships with certain fixed ideals and projections. Sometimes our own intentions don't match what we truly are seeking! If you truly seek a fulfilling relationship, allow yourself to remain aware without any judgement, expectations or how you wish it to turn out to be. Let the relationship unfold and at each step see if it offers to match your energy. You would know!! If it's fun, light, expansive with no strings attached, if you are operating from honor, trust and respect! You would know if your intentions are clear! Just remember, 'You attract what you are' so keep aside all your ideas of how it should be, keep aside all that you read, hea...

What I miss the most about my father's presence is our meaningful conversations. One day when I was just 17 was he talked to me about marriage. He told me: 'Sahar remember, if you and your husband can't be best of friends, you would never experience the kind of love you expect.' This statement stayed with me, but unfortunately I didn't have a chance to experience and fully understand it. Today as I watch many relationships, I finally understand what my father meant then. Most of us Love the other the way we have been conditioned to know love. We do things as a sign of love for our children, spouse, parents and all others as we want to be loved. Very few really care to know the other person well enough to identify his needs, his pain and conditioning. And unless we know ourselves well and are our own very best friend we can never hold a similar space for our loved ones. We won't be able to love and care as the other wishes to be ...

Most people wish to be happy, successful, in love or all of the above! But they do not really know what does it mean to be happy, or how they wish to feel being in love? Many don't even know what exactly success would feel or look like! The most important questions you can ask yourself and ask frequently are : ' What do I really want?' 'How would it feel to be happy? What does happiness mean to me?' 'What do I understand/ know about being in Love? How do I wish to feel?' 'What does success mean to me?' Ask the right questions and help the Universe to bring you most accurate and liberating answers! Questions keep you in flow so keep asking! Sahar Gharachorlou LifeCoach

It is painful to experience rejection,whether in relationships or in our professional life. It does not matter if it is an active rejection, a passive knowing or an assumption of being rejected, it always aches the heart and leave us feeling unworthy, sad and sometimes even angry. Feeling of being rejected often is a reflection of how we feel about ourselves. Like all other painful experiences, it has knocked at your door to wake you up to an aspect of you that you may not be aware of. The first step to understand and be able to handle rejection is to remind ourselves that there is a higher good in this too. The next step is to introspect and see what is this situation and this feeling trying to teach you? The third step is to identify what in you or your belief system is causing it and make conscious efforts to shift it. It is important to be aware of how you feel and what's the intensity of your feeling when you face or assume rejection and do ...

S/he is interested in your pain not your drama. S/he is willing to share your dreams. How s/he responds to the world around. Remember how one does one thing, s/he would always do everything in the same way! 🤔 There is trust and honor more than love and Sexuality. You both share the same concept of fun and adventure. You accept the person as s/he is without the need to change anything but a willingness to grow together . You can accept the person as a package with all past baggage and blunders , present dilemmas and future dreams, the family , life plans, the nature of the person & you still find it worthy of your life. S/he honors life and process of life. His/ her reaction to hard times is acceptable by you. Sahar Gharachorlou LifeCoach

This week you may find yourself in the middle of chaos and conflict. Most probably it is the conflict within where you have questioned yourself a 100 times if you need to let go or hold on!! Step back or move forward?! The Masters urge you to first center yourself. Meditate, connect with nature, ground and detox as much as possible so that you can hear the voice of your heart. That little whisper which brings you calmness and peace. That is your answer. Choose what gives you peace. Follow your heart. If you have to take a break so that you can de-clutter your mind, then please do that. In the professional front, there are signs of maybe some critics on your way, or maybe you have lost the confidence in you. Masters ask you to keep going! Don't give up but change your approach, maybe read about pioneers of your profession and know their struggle so that you can stay motivated! Change the approach, educate yourself and strive for Gold again!! Have a Magic...

" If you are wanting to be loved, cared for, appreciated whether in your work or relationships, it's important you are ready to be seen". It's important you allow others into your Universe! For that you need to know yourself and be in approval of who you truly are! Sahar Gharachorlou LifeCoach

Consciousness which is the essence of what we are is not pro-pain! Consciousness is only pro expansion and joy. ❤️ So if you are in pain because of the love of your life, you are there because it is serving you. Either serving your need or greed! ❤️ No one, absolutely no one ( even in any other kingdom) would hold on to pain if it is pure pain. It has to have a pleasure or a purpose. If it's pure pain you let it go! Like labour pain.At that moment of bone breaking pain, you only want to deliver and be over with pain.The joy settles in later! ❤️ Love has ought to be self-full because unless you have it how can you give or share it? You can't fill a cup from an empty kettle. Why do people have children? because they want to leave behind a part of them, to extend and expand their being... It has absolutely nothing to do with child per se. ❤️ When you fall in love with a person, do you fall in love thinking I am going to selflessly love this person or do...

If you wish to add value to your life, give / share that which is valuable to you. To me most valuable things are : ♦ Affection ♦ Time ♦ Care ♦ Love ♦ Joy ♦ Wisdom What do you value the most?? How do you plan to share what you value? Sahar Gharachorlou LifeCoach

I had always read and heard that most Sufi saints and great philosophers talked about not knowing anything at all, even though perhaps they knew about this existence much more than the collective consciousness of the rest of the world! I finally made an attempt to understand what they meant. I now understand wisdom too causes separation! With wisdom comes a sense of power, a passive superiority which is nothing but the Ego mind playing us yet again. There seem to be 3 dimensions of "All that is". In simpler words, "The All" expresses itself in 3 different ways : The Power The Wisdom And the Dimension of Love Power breathes on control Wisdom breathes on power Love dissolves power and wisdom "Love" as; "acceptance of all that is for what that is and how that is"! In love, is the true power, where every vice becomes a virtue! Simply because no good, bad or ugly exists anymore, they all dissolve in the desire of the lover ( Us and The Spirit ...

The Masters remind us that we are in the most fertile time zone at this moment of time! Whatever you have in mind, those ideas, that project, the love of your life... Whatever it is, if you take steps towards actualizing them, your dreams would be fulfilled with least effort. Just make sure your intention is clear and for highest good of all, make sure you are focused and grounded in your ideas and that you have a concrete plan. This is a period of good news, all the past efforts and hard work you have put in, starts to pay off. It may not be in the manner you have perceived in your mind, but it surely is much better than you thought or could imagine. The key is let go off your idea of compensation and allow the Universe to shower you with abundance! Have a Magical week everyone! Sahar Gharachorlou Therapist & LifeCoach Source: Ascended Masters Message for the week 24th - 31st Jan 2019 !

I am worthy of Love because I Am I am worthy of Support because I Am I am worthy of growth because I Am I am worthy of a joy because I Am I am worthy of laughter because I Am I am worthy of good friendships and harmonious relationships because I Am I deserve to excel I deserve to manifest I deserve to be fulfilled I deserve to be contented I deserve to be free I deserve to be loved I am worthy of truth I am worthy of Love I am worthy of loyalty I am worthy of trust I am worthy of honor I am worthy of Abundance I am worthy of good health I am worthy of Wealth I am worthy of Prosperity I am worthy of Grace Just because I Am! Blessed Be! Aloha Everyone 💖 P.S These affirmations are to be repeated in loop of 7, for next 40 days! When you do the affirmations, Comment below and let me know how you did... Sahar Gharachorlou LifeCoach

Nothing less, nothing more. Only in acceptance a union is possible! Aloha is Love in it's true form. The Feelings you feel, are not love, they are desires of wishing to experience Aloha. To be received in total acceptance in order to have a Union! Sahar Gharachorlou LifeCoach

Words are powerful, they can pierce through a heart or they can put together the pieces of a broken heart . More than what we say, the way we say it is important. I share with you 7 tips that can help you have better communication and use the gift of language to build your relationships, add value to your life, bring in harmony and expand the Love. Take a Pause! Before you say anything, just take a few seconds pause. Ask yourself, am I hurt? Angry? Upset? If yes, don't say anything. Extend the Pause. Wait till you settle down. The energy that each word carries can be destructive or constructive, choose the latter. Know your intention before you speak. Ask yourself, does this hurt me? Why do I want to communicate? Am I operating from highest good of all? What is my purpose? Ask yourself, does this really matter? How will this effect us in the long run? Ask yourself, is this really true? If no or you are not sure, then drop it. How would anyone benefit of s...