7 Tips that can help you have Better Communication!!

Words are powerful, they can pierce through a heart or they can put together the pieces of a broken heart . More than what we say, the way we say it is important.

Life Coaching Tips

I share with you 7 tips that can help you have better communication and use the gift of language to build your relationships, add value to your life, bring in harmony and expand the Love.

Take a Pause!
Before you say anything, just take a few seconds pause.

  1. Ask yourself, am I hurt? Angry? Upset? If yes, don't say anything. Extend the Pause. Wait till you settle down. The energy that each word carries can be destructive or constructive, choose the latter.
  2. Know your intention before you speak. Ask yourself, does this hurt me? Why do I want to communicate? Am I operating from highest good of all? What is my purpose?
  3. Ask yourself, does this really matter? How will this effect us in the long run?
  4. Ask yourself, is this really true? If no or you are not sure, then drop it. How would anyone benefit of something you are not even sure off?
  5. Ask, is this really necessary?
  6. Ask, is this the right time? Can it wait till I have a better way of conveying my truth?
  7. Communication is our gift so that we can express our being, make sure you make aware, conscious , meaningful and purposeful conversations!

Conscious Communication leads to happy relationships!

Sahar Gharachorlou Life Coach

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