Sahar Sukriti Shivam

Let's understand what causes resistance in others towards us! Because that's where we feel depleted and unworthy!  That's were we go on a rampage to prove ourselves to the world and most often than not we return disappointed and beaten. When we put up an Ego wall and a barrier up, because we want to be perceived a certain way ( good daughter/ son, Perfect partner, effective colleague, all knowing boss, best mother/ father, most hard working / deserving employee etc....) is when we cause others to react and reject us. Our judgement of how they should perceive us and our judgement and expectation of ourselves puts great energy barriers up against us. When you persist on something whether how you should be recieved by others or how your goals should be achieved, you put up the most powerful resistance wall in place which makes it difficult for others to penetrate into your energy wall. Drop the need to be perceived by others as you wish and e...

Let's understand another shade of resistance! Criticism is a most ignored layer of resistance. When we criticize other people for who they are, we are operating from resistance to our own authentic self. Fault finding with others, gossip and criticism is nothing but resistance to your own being. For most people it's difficult to digest others being who they are. We may approve of something and disapprove of another but that's about our conditioning. It has nothing to do with right-ness or wrong-ness of it. Those who are aligned with their own life, they talk (if at all) with encouragement and words that would be soothing and helping others to align too. These days most people ( especially those with a few spiritual practices / reading) start to believe they are an authority to pin point, find fault, criticize etc, which is a very passive way of resistance. An aligned person would wait to find the right time, right expression, right guidance ...