Resistance and it's many Shades!

Let's understand another shade of resistance!

Criticism is a most ignored layer of resistance. When we criticize other people for who they are, we are operating from resistance to our own authentic self.

Sahar Gharachorlou LifeCoach

Fault finding with others, gossip and criticism is nothing but resistance to your own being. For most people it's difficult to digest others being who they are. We may approve of something and disapprove of another but that's about our conditioning. It has nothing to do with right-ness or wrong-ness of it.

Those who are aligned with their own life, they talk (if at all) with encouragement and words that would be soothing and helping others to align too.

These days most people ( especially those with a few spiritual practices / reading) start to believe they are an authority to pin point, find fault, criticize etc, which is a very passive way of resistance.

An aligned person would wait to find the right time, right expression, right guidance as to how and when to speak in order to be from the highest level of love.

S/he knows no righteousness, neither believes s/he is an authority to give advice.

Observation, and delivering a message is different from criticism. First one has the energy of compassion and second one has energy of resistance.

Always before saying anything to anyone or talking about people you must ask yourself :

1. Is this true? Am I sure it is true?
2. Even if it is true, is this the right time?
3. Is it necessary?
4. Am I being righteous here?

Sahar Gharachorlou LifeCoach

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