Pay attention! Our society today is a result of our parenting yesterday!
Inspired to write this
after a case of teenage was resolved.
I often come across cases
of children with anxiety, stress issues, OCD, performance deficiency
etc.
Unfortunately in India we
have a culture of leaving kids with our help at home or sending them
to boarding schools at young age of sometimes even 2-3 years of age.
How much ever we are
worried about their future, we must remember that the future is
created from today. If a child is emotionally stable and has been
attended by parents, the child would have better emotional quotation
which is a lot more important than good grades from a good school.
A child's character is
shaped by age 7. It is important he feels safe, he is treated like an
adult and with respect. It's important that he has been taught the
basics right. A child has no Aura till age 7 and lives in the Aura of
the mother. When children are made to stay away, they usually carry
the feeling of abandonment and rejection which later leads to self
sabotaging behavior. They don't understand good future, they take it
as a punishment, that they were sent away.
If you keep a flower pot
at home, you need to make sure you provide the right environment. How
is it we have come to agree leaving children with helps at home is
the right environment?
Parenting is a full time
job, please have a child when you are ready to devote yourself. When
you are ready to be born as a parent along with the birth of your
child. It is a responsibility and not merely fulfilling the wishes of
your family members.
Pay attention! Our
society today is a result of our parenting yesterday.
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