Sahar Gharachorlou LifeCoach

One of the scary words I get to hear a lot these days is the term " Depression".

Being a student of psychology I feel, it's very unfortunate how psychology deals with this MENTIONAL 😳😄, (mental-emotional 😇) dis-ease!

☝🏻️My new innovative vocabulary 😉

Depression is 80% suppressed anger! The person who is depressed is angry at himself for not being able to express, for not being able to say the right thing at the right time. He is angry because of his own inaction, which would have lead him to a state of feeling stuck and paralyzed with the people/ situations .

In more than 80% cases a depressed person only needs to be given permission to express himself, express his anger, shame and regret. To feel his helplessness and his sadness of lost time deeply and acknowledge it.

If you have someone in your family who is clinically diagnosed with depression, please hear them out. Help them express their anger.
Ask them what is it they so want to do? What is it that they feel has been lost forever in their life? What do they desire? ( Now you know why MENTIONAL!! Because all that the subject needs is, to mention his pain of feeling stuck, wasted and delayed over and over again in order to admit and clear it).

In cases, ( especially teenagers and children) where the subject is angry with his/ her environment ( often parent/s) , seeking help of a therapist is advised.

May the earth be a place of joy soon.

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