Universal Law of Exchange and Relationships !!


Sahar Gharachorlou LifeCoach

There is a Universal Law called the ' Law of Exchange'.

I often see this law being abused especially in relationships. It feels as if when it comes to business and other dealings people are still more cautious.

But when it comes to relationships at least one party starts to abuse this Law.

*It is essential to keep in mind nothing in this Universe comes for free.*
Nothing can ever go out of balance no matter how it looks like, but in the grand scheme of life, balance is always being maintained.

Perhaps because there is really no mean or tool to measure the impact of this law and calculate how it is working in area of relationships , it takes a long time for the giver to realize what's happening.

I am writing this because I want you to introspect and know what are you ready to trade off for what you desire.

Sometimes it's the family, sometimes it's finances, for some it may be freedom...

Whether it's in your business, Relationships, friendships or any other area of your life, you should always be sure about what are you ready to 'give up' in order to have what you wish to have.

This is very important simply because *if it is not in your capacity to give up something for an outcome, you would never have the outcome or it would be short lived*. That's why many ( so called) love marriages fall apart. Many friendships and business partnerships go astray because we get into stuff totally unaware by just assuming about the other person or people involved. Hoping the picture perfect would come alive, whereas we are absolutely unaware of our own capacity and our own limitations.

Relationships are a package deal and you need to be completely aware of what you are getting into and why! how much you are ready to contribute and what can you give up without regret!

☑ Have a beautiful evening everyone

Sahar Gharachorlou LifeCoach



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