Universal Law of Exchange ~ Part 2
I wrote about law of exchange and knowing about what are you ready to trade off for what you desire.
Once you know what you
are ready to give up or let go in order to achieve what you desire,
you need to make sure you are 100% comfortable with this exchange.
Keep examining your trade
off in different situation, in times to come with respect to
situations, people and your expectation of the reward.
You need to visualize and
analyze different scenarios and see if your trade off would be worth
it. Once sure then you may proceed.
Next step is to
communicate very precisely as what's acceptable, what is welcomed and
what's simply not acceptable.
The last step is most
important, you must at all times remember it was your trade off. You
chose to let go or give up. This is where most people lose track and
either become entitled or believe they are the victims.
Most people make promises
and commitments they don't mean. They get into situations being over
confident and thinking they would handle it all.
Or they forget why they
did what they did, and start blaming and become bitter and resentful.
As I mentioned, it's
mostly relationships and long term dreams where we are unable to
understand and follow this Law.
It is important to be
authentic and to know yourself and what you desire and what is the
price you would be willing to pay.
Because there are no free
lunches!
Note : Your trade offs
should not be at the cost of your honor, respect and your boundaries.
As much is sound like a
deal but it is a practice of awareness. You need to be sure of where
you are heading & why and then remember it all the way.
Sahar Gharachorlou
LifeCoach
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